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Dear Annie: I have an aunty who has been there for me since my childhood. She has always had my back. My mum is absent, and this aunty the one who has filled in for her all these years. Years back, I felt like I could tell her anything and she would understand me. I adored her so much, still do. But recently, I began to feel a disconnect between us. I asked her why she had been distant lately, and she said that she feels as though I’m competing with her child for her attention. No matter how much I try to explain my feelings, how important our relationship is to me, she brushes me ...

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ARIES (March 21-April 19). Your emotions are compressed into bursts. They’re easy to understand in this concentrated form. Tip: Feelings are always easier to deal with when you’re rested. TAURUS (April 20-May 20). You’ll be challenged to listen well today, and your subject won’t make it any easier to pay attention. Some of what you need to absorb is so dry. Just by making the effort, you’ll be ahead of most others. GEMINI (May 21-June 21). You want to find out what people want even if it’s not what you have to give. Because you ask questions without an attachment to ...

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President Trump’s infection with COVID-19 adds to a year no fiction writer could have contrived. The image of Trump last Friday walking out of the White House wearing a mask and traveling by helicopter to Walter Reed National Military Medical Center was an optic we have not seen with this president, and it was sobering. Trump usually makes remarks to the press, but this time he gave no more than a thumbs-up. Before departing he tweeted a brief video thanking Americans for their support. His departure Monday night from Walter Reed will likely bring attacks from his opponents and most ...

Dear Annie

Dear Annie: I’ve been married for 34 years. Like all couples, there have been ups and downs. We have seen several counselors over the years to work with us in tough times, although we still had intimacy in our marriage. We are now going on 15 months with no intimacy at all. She says she can’t because she doesn’t feel connected to me. We are going to counseling, and she said she was too overwhelmed with doing our finances alone. So, I got involved in that. Then she said that I could not make any sexual advances; it had to come from her. I have tried to make none, but I have ...

Daily Horoscope

ARIES (March 21-April 19). Sometimes groups bring out the worst in people. They can gang up against those they perceive as weaker. There’s someone that the others are discounting. You’ll listen carefully to what this person has to say. TAURUS (April 20-May 20). Beware of those who speak as if like they’ve the key to all knowledge. They’re likely clueless. Those who know a lot are mostly humbled by what they learned. GEMINI (May 21-June 21). Those who advertise transformation will steal a little of your love of who you are now and sell it back to you in the form of a promise. ...

Dear Annie

Dear Annie: My wife and I are drifting apart. I’m a recovering alcoholic of four years. I put her through a lot when I was drinking. When I got sober, I put my recovery first. I went to a lot of meetings of Alcoholics Anonymous and put her second. Now, she is seeing someone else. I think at this point it’s only an emotional affair, not a sexual one. But there have been times when she said she was going out with friends, and I know she went out with him. I’m not sure how I feel about it. I should be angry, and I’m not. But I don’t like it, it bothers me to no end. ...