Dear Annie: What is the protocol when a dear friend repeatedly uses an incorrect word or incorrectly pronounces something when speaking to you? For instance, recently, my friend was speaking of the proper “protocol” for visiting a doctor’s office (under these pandemic conditions), but she said “portacol,” which is not a word. It was not a slip of the tongue, because she repeated the word several times throughout the conversation. Since we were talking directly, and no one else was present, should I have asked something like, “Do you mean protocol?” Other times, my friend has referred to “postate” problems of relatives. How do you politely correct someone in this type of situation? Or during these trying times, do I just chill out and get a life and not sweat the small stuff? — Wondering in Anywhere, USA

Dear Wondering: In general, the answer depends on the friend , whether they’re more likely to be appreciative or annoyed. Personally, I’d be grateful if a friend corrected me to spare me future embarrassment. A good friend tells you when you’ve got something in your teeth.

But in this specific case, it’s notable that both the words your friend mispronounced begin the same way. That suggests a speech impairment, in which case it wouldn’t be helpful to call attention to it. So take your own advice, and don’t sweat the small stuff.

Dear Annie: This is in response to the man who sneezes into his hand.

I am a 65-year-old man, and throughout my years growing up, my dad always had a white handkerchief in his back pocket. When I was a teenager, he gave me some, and I still never leave the house without one in my back pocket. I am quick to pull it out when I feel a sneeze coming on.

It is also handy for grandkids’ runny noses and has been used in emergencies to stop blood flow. I think all men should carry one for just these reasons. Am I old-fashioned? — Always Carry a Kerchief

Dear Always Carry a Kerchief: It is always in style to be courteous to others. Lending your grandkids a kerchief is a good way to be polite and helpful. The only thing old-fashioned about your letter is that you said only men should carry a kerchief. Women should do the same. Tissues are also a good way to go.